Anyway, with all this training new people into this sort of lifestyle, I wanted to do something special. First, I wanted to help show them the toys I use and have been used on me. I wanted to continue spreading the relief in that I have a fairly good idea of what I’m doing, and lastly (because it’s my blog) I wanted to discuss my own first time feelings with each toy. So without further adieu, let’s begin, shall we?
Strikers
We’ll start with the classics, shall we? Now, one of the most
frequent things thought of when thinking of bondage are…whips. If you
look at a whip, it’s sometimes a good chance your perverted mind is
telling you “bondage”. Or rodeo. But this is about bondage.Whips
Description:Whether it’s a bull whip, short whip, razor wire or just a belt, whips can come in various forms and can really say “Don’t fuck with me” when you’re walking toward a slave or submissive.
When Would Kat Use It: I don’t care what sort of whip it is, I would never use it on a first timer. Anything that really holds the potential to cut flesh or create any sort of real stinging after effect. I’ve said this before and I’ll say it every chance I get; it’s not just the dominant in the session. I will, however, let them get a small feel if they so request it. But as something that I’d suggest? Not until they’ve felt a fair deal from the rest of this list.
Kat’s First Experience: Horrifying. Let me just say that blood was shed, screaming was heard, and I quickly ran away into my cage. I’ve never felt the whip as a slave, but since becoming a dominant I’ve taken it on occasion. In the end…not my favourite toy. For me, it does nothing but present a look.
Cane
Description: …Seriously? You need a cane described to you?
When Would Kat Use It: I might use it early on. It’s smooth, hard, packs a real punch behind it, but it tells people if they like it or not right away. The only thing though is it can cause bruises faster than anything else on this list. So would I use it often? Not too often. Only on those who really want a good sense of remembering things that went on. I know the saying is rather out dated, but…if I really went to town with this? You wouldn’t be sitting right for a week.
Kat’s First Experience: There was an older gentlemen I was sent to early in my slave career. I guess my Master and Mistress thought I was a little disobedient or that I needed more obedience training. Either way, they sent me to a specialist. Which isn’t entirely new or a wrong concept. At times, even I’ve had to send a slave to a specialist for that added punch. I’m glad to have one living with me now.
Anyway, one quick lesson from that cane of his really smartened me up.
Of course, since then we’ve become good friends and he gave me that
cane upon my graduation into becoming a dominant. DO NOT ask to be
whipped by this unless you know I really like you.Crop
Description: Leather grip, long shaft of either wood or metal, and a leather head, either stiff or folded over. Often used in ponyplay. Or…”normal” horse riding.
When Would Kat Use It: ALL. THE. TIME! I LOVE these little things!!! I’ve even dressed up in my jockey gear (Don’t laugh just because I take ponyplay that seriously) down the streets with it. Just because. Anyway, when would I use it? Ponyplay training, obviously! Also in times when a cane would be too much. As well, it’s nice to have its reach for when my boots are getting a nice cleaning and I want to inflict a little pain in my slave or submissive at the same time. Also, NOTHING says obey the ever loving fuck out of me like a crop under your chin forcing your head up.
Kat’s First Experience: At the horse track Master took me to. Seriously. And not even a ponyplay track either, but an honest to goodness horse track. It’s where I first saw them and got a feel of them. Not in the painful manner, I was just allowed to touch my Master’s friends crop. It was love at first sight.
Flogger
Description: AKA Cat of Nine Tails. A thick handle of various materials, with strips of leather flowing from it. These strips are either strips normally of leather or braided for an extra punch. Sometimes the strips are inserted with things from beads to razors. Yes, razors. Sometimes the handle can take the form of a dildo that can be used for insertion and create a tail! So cute!
When Would Kat Use It: While I adore the crop, I have to say I love the flogger even more. It’s served me very well over the years in breaking in new slaves and submissives and is, when I can get my hands on it, among the first toys to use in a first session. Yes, I would use it right away in a session. Actually, my love of it began because of my suckiness with a normal whip. I couldn’t hit ANYTHING during my whip training so I stuck with the flogger more during my earlier sessions. I thought that I was bound to hit my target with all those heads. Plus the client always loved it, so I stuck with it. Yep, true love can come from youthful laziness. Ha ha!
Kat’s First Experience: Mesmerizing. When I was still young into my slave collar, I was invited to attend and assist a dominatrix named Lady Carmilla as she worked over a client. The way she handled her flogger…it was so fluid. I remember spending the entire time waiting to see when she would slip up and lose her rhythm but she never did. Even when she started using a second flogger! It was as if everything was as calm as water in her movements. Or…however you would put that analogy. Every now and then I’d earn my own swats for just staring. Even then she never broke her rhythm! It was really an amazing experience. I’ve been flogging now for years and I still don’t consider myself nearly as good as she was then.
Paddle
Description: A smoothed out piece of wood, sometimes covered in leather or various other skins. Sometimes with soft fluffy sides, others with metal beads embedded into it. Holes are often drawn into the tops to allow for ease in movement. These are among the more popularized bondage toys used mostly in “hazing rituals”.
When Would Kat Use It: This would be another for a first time. For those who love a good spanking or just want a sharp smack anywhere over the body. This is another good walk around toy and much like the crop it really works to get someones attention when raising their head up. And like the whip, it really shows you mean to inflict some pain when you’re just holding it. I have no preference over the smaller to the bigger kinds, but I do find the smaller ones bring a real intimacy as you can get really close up to those you’re working with. Still, I think I’d prefer the use of my hand when working that close.
Kat’s First Experience: I was given my own hazing ritual when I first became a slave. So, SO painful. The paddle was how they started it and it only got worse from there. I remember after I was spanked with it, I had to lick it and show it I still loved it. I snuck in a few kisses since I adored it.
A paddle was actually my graduation present from my Master and
Mistress when I became a dominant. But…I’ve had paddles break on me
before so I’m a little frightened of actually using the one they gave
me. It’s on display alongside the cane and my bike handle.Nettles
Description: Leaves from a nettle plant, Urtica dioica is my preferred one. Some just use the leaves, I have mine attached to a wooden pole to allow for safety in the handler.
When Would Kat Use It: Only in the most extreme cases. This falls under NO request from the client. None. Don’t even fucking TRY to request it on your first, second, all the way up to your fiftieth session. I will kick your ass out my door. These. Hurt. So we have to be very intimate if I’m going to use these on you.
Kat’s First Experience: My own stupidity and arrogance. I only tell this story so others won’t follow my footsteps. But…I heard about this sort of whip when I was younger. Before I was a slave, back when tying myself up and shoving socks in my mouth was my sexual high. I knew we had some growing not far from where we lived, so with my mothers gardening gloves I went out to procure some. I should’ve stopped when I realized how much they hurt my hands when the pricks went through the gloves. But I didn’t care, I was invincible! So after checking to make certain the coast was clear…I undid my jeans, and pulled them and my panties down (Remember, I was invincible) and slapped my pussy. Oh. My. God! It hurt so much! I immediately dropped them and ran home crying! My mother was there and I remember creating some phony story as to what happened, she believed it, but my pussy ached so much for the next few days. Yet…I never once contemplated on giving up on being here doing this.
Alright, so there’s part one of my series of new blogs. There should be five more in this series with topics going from;
-Gags
-Dressage
-Misc.
-Inserts
-Furniture
Those will be up…soon. As you can see, if you had to wait for me to finish all of these I’d get my next blog up in…oh…five years or so. lol Anyway…please comment! If you found a striking tool I didn’t cover, let me know and I’ll talk about it in my next blog! Also, if you have any suggestions for the list, feel free to make them.
-Katalina
@NaughtyKatalina
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